Of all the books I have read while doing research for the Brain Chemistry For Lovers show, my absolute hands down favorite is “A General Theory of Love” by Thomas Lewis, M.D., Fari Amini, M.D., and Richard Lannon, M.D. I don’t know how these three M.D.’s managed it, but somehow they were able to collaborate and come up with a book that turns scientific prose into poetry.
Here’s a paragraph from the forward:
“From birth to death, love is not just the focus of human experience but also the life force of the mind, determining our moods, stabilizing our bodily rhythms, and changing the structure of our brains. The body’s physiology ensures that relationships determine and fix our identities. Love makes us who we are, and who we can become. In these pages we explain how and why this is so.” Continue reading ‘“A General Theory of Love”’
Creating the Brain Chemistry For Lovers show continued….
So….where to begin? I had the idea for the show, now I needed to get busy and do some research. I began by going back to the National Geographic article that started it all to see if it would give me some leads. Continue reading ‘The “Doyenne of Desire” - Helen Fisher’
Back in 2006 I found an article in National Geographic Magazine written by Lauren Slater about the neuroscience of love. She begins by writing “In the Western world we have for centuries concocted poems and stories and plays about the cycles of love, the way it morphs and changes over time, the way passion grabs us by our flung-back throats and then leaves us for something saner.” I thought to myself as I was reading that we have been writing SONGS about love for centuries as well.
The article continues….”We have relied on stories to explain the complexities of love, tales of jealous gods and arrows. Now, however, these stories—so much a part of every civilization—may be changing as science steps in to explain what we have always felt to be myth, to be magic. For the first time, new research has begun to illuminate where love lies in the brain, the particulars of its chemical components.”
As I read this, a little light bulb went on in my head. What a great idea for a show! You could take the different stages of love that we humans go through, show what’s happening in the brain in each stage, and then connect the audience to the feelings they experience in these stages through some of the greatest love songs ever written….and that’s how “Brain Chemistry For Lovers” began.
Being an optimistic pessimist who for some reason ends up believing that if you can dream it you can do it, I started. First, more research was required….this is always the fun part for me!
Of course, there would be no me without that special sperm to meet up with that special egg McMuffin. The other half of me is my dad - Dr. F.D. Day. Also possessing an amazing voice, he is the left brain to my mother’s right. In the Myers Briggs Personality Test, my father is an ISTJ - exactly opposite of my mother’s ENFP. They divorced in 1978. I have to say I saw it coming from a mile away. They are SO different. But at one time, they were very much in love. They met, got married, and had me. And I am grateful for both of their perspectives, as that right brain left brain split wove itself together and made me who I am - an INFJ!
One of the projects I’m working on is called BRAIN CHEMISTRY FOR LOVERS. I am more excited about this show than almost anything I’ve ever done (except for the NU SHOOZ Orchestra project that I’m working on concurrently - but more about that later). There is a lot of stuff to tell, but I think that without the influence of my parents - my father’s more clinical mind and my mother’s more artistic temperament, neither I or this project would have been born.
For a really great explanation of right brain/left brain functioning, check out this TED Lecture given by Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor….
This is my first attempt at blogging. Yes, my very first one. It’s an interesting thing this blogging world and I’m actually looking forward to being a part of it. Problem is, I have so many thoughts to share, I have no idea where to start. So I thought I’d start at the very beginning….no, not the embryo stage of me, but the singer to be stage of me. Well I guess in my case that is the embryo stage!
You see, once upon a time, a medical student met an opera singer in Portland OR. They fell in love and had me. Butt first I came into the world (I was a breech baby). My mom sang all the time when I was in utero. My theory is that I didn’t know that there would be lovely sounds outside the womb too, so I was a little hesitant to come out. Turns out the loverly sounds continued outside of that warm wonderful womb. Not only did my mother sing, but my father did too! And such beautiful music they made together too….
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Of all the books I have read while doing research for the Brain Chemistry For Lovers show, my absolute hands down favorite is “A General Theory of Love” by Thomas Lewis, M.D., Fari Amini, M.D., and Richard Lannon, M.D. I don’t know how these three M.D.’s managed it, but somehow they were able to collaborate and come up with a book that turns scientific prose into poetry.
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